Hi, it's so nice to meet you!

I'm Shelby. Leader of the Business Revolution, Spiritual Business Mentor and Creator of the Soul Alignment Activation Method ™

I was divinely guided to the work I do today...

...let me explain

I great up in a cult like religion, pre-programmed with a full set of beliefs and way of looking at the world but something never felt right. It was as if everything that interested me was "wrong".

Making friends out of the religion, WRONG.

Wanting to experience holidays, WRONG.

Curious about yoga and meditation, WRONG.

It was as if there was no choice to discover who I was as a person on my own. At 16 I started pulling away from the religion and by 18 I was fully out, attending FIDM for Fashion Design and Visual Communications. Still feeling like an outsider, I longed for a space where I would be loved and accepted.

I found myself at 20 years old marrying someone I really didn't know but who promised me the world. SO cliche right?

Over the course of five years, I built three incredibly successful businesses.

My first: An online clothing boutique.

My second: A vendor event company.

My third: A direct sales business.

From the outside everything looked "perfect"

The success, the home, the traveling, the opportunities. But you know what wasn't so perfect? My marriage...

It was abusive and very toxic. It took everything within me to find the courage to leave. I was scared. Here was yet another thing I was walking away from.

Worried I was failing my parents, myself, everyone who had supported me up to that point. All of those fears almost kept me trapped and more lost in myself than ever before. But I had to let go.

In January of 2017 I chose to walk away, get divorced, leave the businesses and life I had created behind to start all over. To discover the REAL me.

I packed up my suitcase, my five fur babies, and I head back home to live with my parents.

For 10 months I focused on me.

Healing the parts of myself that I didn't love.

Healing the parts of myself that felt scared to be seen.

Healing the parts of myself that I feared other people seeing.

I began meditating and journaling. I started listening to sound frequency. I started learning how to manifest. And, before I knew it, I was calling in love.

I reconnected with a high school friend, and one thing led to another and what felt like overnight he was mine and I was his.

The love was deep, healing, and my greatest lesson.

Which is what leads me to knowing that my entire life was divinely guided and no one thing had happened TO me, in fact, it had all happened FOR me. I was and always have been, Divinely Protected.

While I was falling in love with myself and with my partner, I also fell in love with the idea of helping other women start and scale businesses of their own. In December of 2017 I launched what was then known as The Boss Lady Agency. I supported women from around the world helping them with every part of their business, but I kept noticing something...life would happen, and they would pull away from all they had built and created.

Their dreams took a backseat.

Their limiting beliefs would take over and they would decide it "wasn't the right time" that when they were "more ready" they would come back to their business and start it back up. They convinced themselves that they had to put everyone else's needs before their own. Sound familiar?

One day it hit me...

these women need to go within!

They needed to go on the journey I had gone on. The journey of self-discovery to uncover who THEY were without all of life's programming.

Over time my business began to transform. I brought in more healing work, I brought in more meditation, more journaling, more focus and intention on the whole women. I started understanding how her journey up to the point of meeting me had shaped her and defined a way of moving through life.

In November of 2018 I got married for the second time.

My business was blooming.

For the first time in my life, I felt "safe" as if nothing could hurt me and just as if life couldn't get better, in February of 2019 I found out I was pregnant.

While growing life within me, I continued supporting women, growing my client load, and becoming a Trauma-Informed Life Coach.

I wanted to help my clients in any way I could.

And then...life happened to me.

In July of 2019, while six months pregnant, my husband passed away.

It was a gut-wrenching moment; I'll never forget the laugh I let out when the paramedics told me he was gone. It was that "you've gotta be f*cking kidding me " laugh that you let out in complete disbelief.

For a time, the whole world stopped. I cried day in and day out. I was so confused and then out of what felt like nowhere, a calm came over me.

"This was meant to happen this way"

All of this pain I had experienced up to this point, it was leading me to my purpose.

I had the perfect half of him still with me, it was my destiny to raise her, to teach her, to guide her. And I couldn't do that if I was broken into a million pieces. So, I chose to look at life differently. All of the pain, the grief, the darkness...I transformed into light.

I let it lead me.

And where did it lead me? To deeper healing, to getting certified in many healing modalities so that I could support women in business through every hardship they experienced, so that they didn't ever have to give up on their dreams, so they could find the power and the strength within to lead with purpose,

Which is where I am today.

A world-renowned Spiritual Business Mentor, supporting women on their path to create an Income and an Impact, revolutionizing the business industry, putting the WHOLE women at the center of her business. Creating a holistic way to grow.

This life, it led me here and I cannot wait to continue on this journey.

My life today?

I'm Married

Third times a charm, right? Haha. No, but really, divinely guided. This man entered into my life and let me grieve, let me heal, and chose to step in as a father when my daughter was a little over one years old.

Together we now have a son and our family is thriving.

I'm Building

Connecting with like-minded women has always been important to me. When we can see one another for the life we have lived we can love on each other so big!

In August 2022 I launched Brunch with Babes, a nationwide networking and mastermind community for women in business. Today we have six chapters spread across the US.